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Snow Day

Today was a snow day. For Fiona, it meant no school. For Kim, it meant working from home, as well as spending a some time digging out. For me, I went to work and it was a long day.

I spent about an hour digging out the car. While I was working on it, the plow came and clear the driveway so I could get out. The drive to work was fairly uneventful. There weren’t many cars on the road, so even though the roads were not as clear as they could be, traffic moved along briskly. I was fortunate in finding a good parking place when I got to work.

Part of my job, as social media manager is to setup a blog. The blog is not ready for a formal launch. There are still things that I’m tweaking. However, I’m getting a few good blog posts up.

With that, I’m pretty tired and don’t have a lot of writing energy right now. So, if you want to see my efforts with the CHC blog, check out this. Just be aware that it is still under construction. There are lots of things I need to fix or setup.

That said, if you have thoughts or comments about any of my recent blog posts over there, let me know.

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Tired

Yet again, I sit down at the computer, too tired to write the sort of blog post I would like. I should be commenting on politics or technology; something going on in Woodbridge, or in the world. There are plenty of things to write about, but I’m just too tired.

I got up fourteen and a half hours ago to get ready for work. I shoveled out the car. Even with our driveway being plowed, it still took me an hour to get the area around the car cleared. I knew that parking would be problematic at work, so I headed in early in hopes of getting a decent parking space.

I spend a lot of time reading, thinking and writing, so between physical exhaustion and mental exhaustion, I’m pretty wiped out.

So, now I am at home. However, Kim is working late this evening, so I am in charge of making sure that Fiona gets her homework done and gets to bed. Also, there is a puppy that hasn’t gotten enough attention. I’ll get a few things done, and get to bed early. Maybe I can catch up a little this weekend.

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Rabbit, Rabbit, Rabbit. Happy New Year. 1/1/11.

What a difference a year makes. I spent most of last year consulting. It was lots of one off contracts; small little jobs, often with a political slant. I got a lot of writing done, fairly good writing, I believe done. Much of it was on the blog. I probably tweeted less and didn’t attempt National Novel Writing month. The family dog died. We adopted a new dog. Friends and relatives died.

Then, in October and November, things started getting busy. I wrote a bit for the Bethwood Patch. I haven’t written there for a few weeks, because my new job has been taking up all my attention. After a decade of mostly freelance consulting, I’ve returned to the nine to five in the office routine. I’m still settling in there, and look forward to a lot of writing there.

But looking a little deeper, things haven’t really changed all that much. My writing form may have changed a little. The topics I am focusing on may have changed a little. The predictability of my cashflow may have changed a little, but deep down inside, things really haven’t changed all that much.

Last year, I wrote:

I will try to slow down, to just say no to museum running and trying to live each moment more fully and more lovingly than the previous.

In 2009, I quoted an old Calvinist joke applying it to 2008 saying

What did the Calvinist say when he fell down the stairs?
Thank God, that’s over.

As I tried to find words to frame a resolution for the year, I wrote:

Yes, I would like to make a difference, to somehow help people find their voices and get more involved in the public sphere, yet that boulder seems not to be budging very much.

In 2008, I asked

What are the parallel processes taking place between my family life, the mailing lists that I’m on, blogging communities that I’m part of, and our nation and the world? Is there some sort of master narrative that can be found? Where do dreams and ideas like Social Dreaming fit in?

So, perhaps each succeeding year does not make as much difference as we might think, but is really simply a convenient checkpoint to look at a much bigger story. How did last year fit into the broader story of your life, the life of your community and the life of your world? How will next year fit in?

Will it be a Happy New Year? I sure hope so.

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The Face of God

The snow has begun to fall and often, I would be excited about an impeding large storm. I am getting the weather alerts and various advisories. Kim is doing her shopping and Fiona will soon be going to her grandparents’ house. She will have a great time riding out the storm with them. Yet I remain blue. Some of it may be the sadness at the passing of my aunt. Some of it may be reflections about the homeless.

Last Tuesday, I went to two memorial services for homeless people that died during 2010. They were touching services and I think about those who will struggle through the storm without a home. I pray they may find shelter and warmth.

At the first service, the minister talked about how since we are created in God’s image, that means homeless people are too, and we need to remember that as we treat them with care and dignity. She spoke about seeing the face of God in homeless people.

The second service echoed this idea, and took it even further. It was at the Episcopal church in Middletown, CT. When it came time to greet one another, a ritual where Episcopalians shake one another’s hands and say ‘Peace’, the minister talked about a Bishop that had visited from Africa. He had decried the sterile manner in which the peace was passed. In his church, he said, instead of saying “Peace”, they say, “I love the face of God that I see in you today.” Wow!

So, we greeted each other that way, or at least some of us did. For the homeless person who is invisible to too many of us, it must be quite an experience to have someone look them in their eyes and talk about love and the face of God. I hope both the homeless and who currently have homes were blessed by such exchanges.

For me, I had a slightly different experience. Behind me was a man from the American Legion. I had overheard him speaking about gathering food at The Legion that he was going to bring to a local food pantry. He had asked the executive director of the food pantry, who was next to him at church about a good time to bring the food over.

I turned towards him and he greeted me “Hello”.

I used the words the minister had suggested and told him I loved the face of God that I saw in him that day. He looked a little uneasy and shrugged it off. Yet his words about finding time to bring food to the homeless echoed the voice of God whether or not he chose to acknowledge it.

Next to him, the executive director of the food pantry beamed. It seemed as if he has spent much of his life seeing the face of God in those around him, both in the homeless people that come to receive food, as well as in the faces of guys from the American Legion dropping off food. He seemed happy, perhaps even relieved, that people could name and join in on this wonderful vision that he is privileged to see so often, but perhaps does not look often enough in the mirror to see it there too.

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Another Day Passes

Today, I woke early, scanned a few blogs, read a few emails, even got a chance to fire off an email in a great discussion, and then it was on to a long, hard day. First, there was the two hour drive to my aunt’s funeral. Between the funeral, the burial, and the lunch, that took up much of the day. Then, a two hour drive back to Connecticut for my father-in-law’s birthday party and a small Christmas party for some of the extended family that gathered.

At home, one of the feather pillows was chewed to bits by the puppy who was probably a bit bored and upset that much of the day passed without playmates for him. Feathers everywhere.

Now, a brief chance to read some more emails and write a brief blog post. Tomorrow, there will be preparations for Christmas. The house needs to be cleaned. The goose will go in the oven. Fiona will be in the pageant. So, I shall head off to bed soon without any of the blog posts that are percolating in my head actually making it online. We’ll see how much writing I can get done tomorrow or Saturday.

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