Psychology
Exploring the Angry Crowd at the Gate
Submitted by Aldon Hynes on Mon, 02/25/2008 - 17:41The scenario presented to the demonstration group for the Co-Creation of Leadership session centered around a hypothetical village where a book had been published talking about what a wonderful place the village was. Everyone was buying the book and talking about it, until a newspaper article came out alleging that the author was a child molester. The town turned ugly, burning the books and wanting to lynch the author. The members of the group were supposed to explore how leadership emerged in the ad hoc group as they attempted to address this.
Of course, it was all hypothetical. No community would change so rapidly and drastically to lynch someone, would they? No community would act upon an untested allegation in the media, would they? No community would devalue the work of someone simply because they found out the person had done something inappropriate elsewhere, would they?
Upon returning home, the question became a little more immediate. Since it started, I’ve been writing positive articles about Central Grid. There efforts to create an alternative grid focused on the community and financial aspects of virtual worlds is laudable to me and I hope they are successful.
However, as I alluded to in my Second Life Notes the following morning, there allegations have been emerging about “notorious scam artists” being back in Second Life as well as involved with alternative grids.
In response, I received an email from a person named Frank Corsi. Frank wanted to know if I was calling him a notorious scam artist. Frank is better known in Second Life circles as Jasper Tizzy. In his email, he said it was no secret that he is the person behind Central Grid and asked me not to hurt Central Grid with bad news about this. He then went on to present his side of the story on various issues from the past.
In a discussion today, one person who has been involved with banking in Second Life as well as the emergence of the financial sector in Central Grid, asked why people would hide information about the backers of a venture, if the backers are innocent. I pointed out that even though someone might be innocent, if the crowd thinks they are guilty, the crowd will lynch them anyway. The person went on to speak about the group they are working with, asserting that it has always operated away from scandal and dishonesty. I noted that the organization was associated with banking, and by many people is probably guilty by association.
So, what will happen with Central Grid now that Jasper Tizzy’s involvement is more widely known? Will the crowds tear it down because of the reports they’ve heard of Jasper? Will they stick around even if they think of Jasper as a scam artist, because they think the idea is good in spite of Jasper? Will they give Jasper the benefit of the doubt and consider the possibility that he isn’t a scammer?
On one level, this is much more complicated than the scenario I was confronted with at the AGPA conference. There is the issue of whether or not you can trust the company hosting the grid. People have expressed concerns about how trustworthy Linden Lab is and now, people are bound to question how trustworthy Central Grid is.
In the demonstration group, I tried to get people to step back from their desire to lynch the author of the book and to hold onto what was good. Yes, they should let justice follow its path, but they should not rush to vengeance instead of justice. It feels like I need to do something similar with Jasper and Central Grid. Will I be any more successful than I was in the demonstration group? Time alone will tell.
Experiencing the AGPA Large Group
Submitted by Aldon Hynes on Sun, 02/24/2008 - 19:59An important part of the AGPA conference for me personally was the Large Group open sessions. I've participated in large groups at Group Relations conferences in the past and I've always valued the experiences. This large group experience was different, which brought its own value to me.
Post AGPA dream
Submitted by Aldon Hynes on Sun, 02/24/2008 - 09:06As my cellphone started chirping this morning, alerting me to my need to get my stuff together and get on the road back home, I was in the midst of a striking dream. It started in what seemed to be the parking lot of a shopping center. I was driving the car and had pulled into a parking lot. I was inching the car forward to be all the way into the lot, but I went a little too far and hit the curb. I backed up, but backed up to far. I pulled forward again and overshot the curb by a greater amount, backed up again to correct things. By then, Kim as out of the car getting stuff out of the trunk, which I'm not sure how she did it. I was concerned about hitting her and pulled forward, driving across the curb through the parking and making a grand loop back to where Kim was. She was concerned about if I was alright and I said I felt okay, just out of focus. So, she decided that I should simply drive home. She would get home some other way.
I drove home through a town that seemed very much like the town I grew up in as a child. As I drove, two women in outfits that seemed like a cross between a clown out fit and a running suit, went out for a run, crossing my path. I worried about being able to avoid hitting them. I pulled onto another street that was crowded with pedestrians. Angst filled, I drove very carefully home, where I arrived safely, without doing any damage to anyone or anything, except perhaps my own equilibrium.
In a few minutes, I will head off to the train station. I will sit on the train and process and write about my experiences at the AGPA conference. I hope to get home safely, regaining my equilibrium, and not hitting anyone on the way. I am not sure how much this is about the AGPA conference and the wonderfully varied reactions to me as a blogger and member of the press that I received. Other associations or interpretations are welcome.
AGPA Saturday recap.
Submitted by Aldon Hynes on Sat, 02/23/2008 - 23:58So, the annual conference of the American Group Psychotherapy Association (AGPA) is done. It was a day with a great lecture, a fun lunch at which the Capital Steps performed, and a long large group session. Afterwards, there was a reception which provided a chance to say goodbye to anyone who hadn't hopped on a plane already. I went out to dinner with a few people still in town and have made it back to my friends' house fairly early. I'm exhausted and will save my more detailed recap and other writing for later. Perhaps I shall get some good writing done on the train home tomorrow. If you are someone coming as a result of meeting me at AGPA, please check back over the next few days to see if I've gotten a chance to write anything more that a few quick recaps.
For those of you looking for my writing about Second Life and Politics, I hope to return to those topics after I get home, perhaps as early as Monday, depending on how over loaded my email box is. The rest of my writing about the AGPA conference can be found in the psychology section.
The AGPA Dance
Submitted by Aldon Hynes on Sat, 02/23/2008 - 08:54Perhaps the AGPA dance is a good metaphor for the whole AGPA experience, or perhaps my whole relationship with group psychotherapy. People asked if I would be going. I thought it would be fun and said I would be interested. However, I didn't have a ticket. There is a board where people leave messages and share information. People told me that I could check the board to see if anyone was had a ticket to give away. I could even leave a message on the board to see if someone would respond.
I checked the board several times,but nothing turned up. I was dubious about getting a ticket by leaving a message on the board, so I prepared myself for returning to my friends' house and spending the evening writing. Yet I ran into some people that I knew from the mailing list. We sat around having coffee and talked. People drifted in and out and at one point it was there was a lively discussion with quite a few people. A discussion came up about people having extra tickets and I expressed my interest. Before I knew it, someone had given me a ticket, not only for the dance, but also for Saturday's lunch. I am truly grateful. As I expressed my thanks, someone made a comment about how it showed the power of family. The idea of AGPA as a powerful second family for many people is a theme that keeps coming back during the conference.
So, I went to the dance. I arrived early and found a place where I could sit quietly, far enough from the music to be deafened. It was a good vantage point to watch as people arrived. Slowly, people I knew began to show up. I spoke with people I knew from various sessions I had attended.
This is not a shy group and many people approached me. Some to talk about my writing, others to talk about our shared experiences or to invited me to the dance floor. Just as I had not intended to attend the dance, I had not intended to write about it, but as people asked, my thoughts coalesced.
Everyone joined in the Love Train. It was a very much a large group experience, but the experience was much different than the discussion of killing off leaders in the large group session. Instead, as the train of dancers weaved its way around the dance floor, it frequently shifted shape. People would reach out to bring others in. They would move from one place in the train to another, attempting to keep the train whole and connected.
Other songs jumped out at me during the night. "Respect". "I will survive". There were others that seemed to communicate something special about AGPA and the members at the dance. Perhaps the song that tied it all together was "We are family"
So, now the dance is over. I've tried to capture my experiences and share them in words. Now, it is time to move forward, to see what experiences this new day will bring.