Archive - Dec 2015
December 5th
Advent II 2015
Submitted by Aldon Hynes on Sat, 12/05/2015 - 18:57A voice cries out in the wilderness,
the wilderness of San Bernardino
the wilderness of Colorado Springs
the wilderness of endless Facebook posts
that show no compassion
the wilderness of shut-ins
dying along
the wilderness of homeless people
trying to stay warm.
Make straight the way of the Lord
in the hearts of the people
in the words of the leaders
in the actions of us all
as we show compassion
to those different from us
smile at those
who too rarely see smiles
because we too rarely
smile ourselves.
And all flesh shall see the salvation of God
whatever they call God
whatever they think of God
if they even think of God at all
or acknowledge God’s existence.
The salvation found
in a smile
a hug
a gentle word
a shared meal
is but part
of our role
in making the rough ways smooth.
My #Advent #QuestionADay
Submitted by Aldon Hynes on Sat, 12/05/2015 - 05:42I’ve been participating in the Question a Day Advent Calendar. It has been quite a week, this first week of Advent, and I’ve combined a couple questions into one post. I was starting to write a different blog post about my week, which slowly changed into my advent question. As I looked at the calendar, I found it fits nicely with today’s question.
“What’s the best advice you heard this week?”
Let me take parts of my personal spiritual journal, and put them into a public blog post. First, I’ll talk about what I think some of the best advice I gave this week.
People have been posting online, “Don’t Pray”. They are posting, “God is not fixing this”. They have wagged their tongues and asking, “Where is your God?”
I’ve responded saying, “Don't say ‘No More Prayers’, say ‘Backup your prayers with action’. No more empty rhetoric.”
But the question is about advice I’ve heard this week, so I’ll hop to a different part of my journal:
Friday, we had Grand Rounds at work on cultural competency when providing LGBT care. One of my tweets summarized an important point saying, “Key aspect of the cultural competency training I'm at: learning how to be respectful of people who don't match our assumptions.” In my own journey, it is about standing with the other. That is perhaps the best advice I’ve heard this week, explore how to be respectful of people who don’t match your expectations.
Part of the discussion was about creating a safe place for people to talk about the sexual orientation and gender identity. It seems that the safest place to talk about such core issues we all face is the medical office, and, unfortunately, not the church. There was a discussion about health centers ‘coming out’ on coming out day. How do we, as a church, come out as a community that loves all people?
This leads to my advent question:
At work, we will be doing a series of webinars about clinical workforce development. We are trying to find ways to avoid them being just another webinar. One of our phrases is, “This is not your mother’s webinar”. I sent off an email to our clinical director suggesting we use, “We interrupt the webinar to disrupt health care”. As I write this, I wonder about how we would complete the phrase,
“We interrupt this sermon, (or this church service, or even, this vestry meeting), to disrupt … “
Later this morning, I will head off to a poetry group I am part of. What does poetry interrupt? What does it disrupt? How does this fit in my journey?
So, my question to you: Complete this phrase: “We interrupt this _____ to disrupt _____”
December 4th
#Advent #Questionaday A Rainbow Swirl
Submitted by Aldon Hynes on Fri, 12/04/2015 - 07:42Yesterday’s question was “What color and shape best describes your day?” It ended up being a long day, so I didn’t get a chance to write down my reply. It was a long day when a lot of things happened, so there isn’t a simple color or shape that best describes the day. Instead, it is probably best to describe the day as a rainbow swirl.
Today’s question is “What’s your favorite place for thinking?” My immediate reaction was the blue stuffed chair in the corner of the living room, where I am sitting as I write this. It is my writing place, and hence my thinking place. However, there are plenty of runner ups. My bed as I’m falling asleep, or when I wake up in the middle of the night. The shower, as I’m getting ready for work, and thinking about what I need to do during the day. My car, during the commute. A church sanctuary. Some place in nature, in the woods, or by a body of water.
So, what is your favorite place for thinking?
December 3rd
Godless Liberals Want to Take Away Your Guns
Submitted by Aldon Hynes on Thu, 12/03/2015 - 07:45Many of my friends are posting comments like, “No more prayers” on social media in response to the most recent mass shooting in America. I understand their point, but I think it is misguided, and I chose the title of this blog post to illustrate this.
One person, whom I’ll refer to as a Radical Humanist attacked me on Twitter when I posted “Make straight the way of the Lord, in San Bernardino, in Colorado Springs, In all those places of darkness where God's lLove seems so far away”
I choose my words carefully. As an Episcopalian, I seek to coexist with people from all belief structures. I seek to find common ground and ways we can work together. Unfortunately, there are radicals in every belief structure that fight against coexistence. Some simply pick fights online, others pick up physical weapons. I’m glad that the radical humanist that attacked me chose to do so only with words, and I challenged him to show me where the compassion is in his words. He could not.
My tweet harkened to the season of Advent, which we Episcopalians are currently observing. It is a time of waiting and watching for the coming of the Kingdom of God, of waiting and watching for Christmas. It is a time of recognizing the darkness that is in the world.
To me, this does not mean not doing anything. In a sermon I preached in the summer of 2013, I said
Yet, another issue with prayer is that too often it is viewed as an excuse for doing nothing. Too often, we feel, when we've prayed about something important, that it's all we can or need to do.
Yet I don't believe that is at all what God has in mind for us. Prayer is linked with mission, with going out to proclaim the Gospel. One of the things I've learned from much time working with various well run volunteer and non-profit organizations, is that when a person says, “I think we should....” and goes on to talk about one task or another, the wise leader responds, “Thank you for the great idea. Does this mean that you are willing to head up a group to make this happen?” Suggesting is volunteering. Prayer should be too.
It is an old problem, either/or thinking. It is possible to do two things, like pray, and act on the prayer. I believe this is generally what God calls us to. I went into this in a comment I posted on Facebook:
I think it is a dangerous path to take saying "No More Prayers" or "God' Isn't Fixing This". It sets up a narrative for the gun culture about Godless liberals taking away their guns. It reflects either/or thinking which contributes to so many of our problems and blocks progress in many cases. Instead, Senator Murphy's approach has a nuance that is much more effective. It is a both/and approach. If you're going to pray, back up your prayers with action.
Saying No More Prayers is very much like saying No More Facebook. We all know the problems with Slacktivism, but telling people not to use Facebook until the issue of gun violence in America is fixed just doesn't seem wise.
My two cents, as a candidate who has gone door to door talking with voters about gun violence, and still posts messages of praying for victims.
Instead, we need to promote the narrative that ending gun violence is the Christian thing to do, as well as the humanist thing, and the Jewish thing, and the Muslim thing, and the thing of all religions. We need to stand with Bishops Against Gun Violence to http://www.claimitgc.org/> Claim Common Ground Against Gun Violence. We need to be part of Faiths United to Prevent Gun Violence. We need to participate in The 2015 National Gun Violence Sabbath Weekend is December 10-14
We need to change the narrative about gun control and gun culture to one of proclaiming God’s love by working to stop gun violence.
December 2nd
Advent Question of the Day: Gratitude
Submitted by Aldon Hynes on Wed, 12/02/2015 - 20:58It has been another long day, topped off with yet another mass shooting in the United States. My wife is fighting a sinus infection, and the dining room table has been taken over by Christmas crafts projects.
I get home to a makeshift dinner. We eat around the living room table and talk about the news. We take a break to try and lure the cat which has slipped outside, back in. I try to think about the question of the day and write. “What makes you feel grateful?”
Recently, I was at a meeting where a doctor from Nigeria spoke about going on a mission to a poorer part of Nigeria. She talked about how she had thought she was poor until she went on the mission.
So, in spite of the hard day, my wife’s sinus infection, the wayward cat, things are actually really good. What makes me feel grateful? All the little things of life that are so easily taken for granted,