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Personal reflections, comments about things I've been doing, etc.

Getting people to pay attention

Depending on who you ask and how they are counting, the average American now sees more than 400 advertisements a day. It often seems like I get more than 400 email messages a day and as many instant messages as well. I often pay about as much attention to many of them as I do to advertisements, and while I may receive more emails or instant messages each day than the average American, I suspect my response isn't that far out of the norm.

This leads us to the question of how, in this world of constant partial attention, can you get anyone to pay attention and respond to your message. It seemed as if many of the advertising folks at OMMA focused on online advertising as just another place to put up an non-interactive billboard or thirty second spot and I wondered how different the banner ads or the search ads were really from those other advertisements.

This isn't to say that such advertising isn't effective. In fact, I believe it is fairly effective, not in a click through sort of way,but in terms of forming a digital palimpsest; shaping associations with products and norms of expected behavior. People sending emails might want to think about their emails in how they help form such associations or expected behaivors.

Yet, so many of the political emails I receive are aimed at eliciting a contribution. At OMMA, people spoke about email campaigns as needing to give as much to the email receipient as they expect to receive in return. Emails that provide useful information or a sense of community are much more effective than the simple asks. Yet it seems like, in the political sphere, so many of the emails don't really give me anything and as a result, I don't pay very close attention to them, let alone clickthrough to their signup, volunteer or donate pages.

This is perhaps even more notable in Twitter. As I write this, Barack Obama is following 5,199 people on Twitter. Somehow, I don't imagine he, or his staffers pay attention to that many twitters. In return, 4,910 people are following Barack Obama. I can easily imagine that many people wanting to get short quick updates from the Obama campaign. Yet it is worth noting that only 34 updates have been sent. It is similar with the Edwards campaign. Sen. Edwards is following 3,884 twitterers. In return, 3,574 are following him. He's posted 84 updates, although some of them start off with (from staff). Sen. Edwards has even favorited one Twitter message and has used twitter to encourage people to send in questions.

Neither have used Twitter in any conversational manner, the way many people start twitter messages with an at sign and a twitter id to indicate that the message is directed and, and usually in reply to a different twitter message.

So, in this world of excessive messages, in advertisements, emails, twitters, instant messages and so on, how do you get people to pay attention, to become engaged? A few people have sent me emails about projects they are working on that they think might help. I'll write up some of these a bit later, but if you have thoughts, please add them here, or send me an email, an instant message or a message via twitter. If you're lucky and I'm not overwhelmed by all the other messages, I just might see it and pay attention.

Actually, it is all my fault

On a mailing list of Group Psychotherapists, there has recently been a discussion about two teenage girls in Australia "who'd posted their fixation with suicide and self-harm on their My Space sites, and on sites of devotees of the 'emo' subculture...[and] hung themselves in the mountains outside of Melbourne."

People wrote to ask, "What was the effect on that MySpace "group"?...Did any members injure (or kill) themselves after this?...Could this have been prevented?"

The following is my response:

Actually, it is all my fault. ;-|

I spend time visiting MySpace. I have my own MySpace page. I've even written on band pages and have a MySpace post about being emo, particularly as it related to the 2006 U.S. Senate race in Connecticut. (But that's another long story.)

But isn't that the reaction that most people have to a suicide, or some horrible shootings somewhere, or other times when people act irrationally and hurt themselves or people around them?

And isn't it much easier to blame it on the culture? Suicides in MySpace are due to the 'emo' culture. Columbine, as we will all recall, was due to heavy metal music, and I'm sure that 'emo' is just the MySpace manifestation of too much heavy metal music.

Nonetheless, we do always come back to what could have been done, and I guess that is a good thing. We should always be looking for ways we can reach out and help those around us a little better. That, I suspect is the real core of the human condition.

31 years ago, this month, I was a freshman in college. I had skipped my senior year of high school, so all my old classmates were seniors back in high school. I received a letter from home where my mother wrote that, by the way, Rocky is missing. Rocky was a girl I had been fond of before heading off to college. Panicked, I called home to get details. She had been walking to the library one evening and never showed up. Over the following month, there were reports of people who thought they had seen her one place or another.

At the end of the month they found her body in a ravine a few towns away. No one ever figured out why this happened. I heard this, from newspaper clippings my mother sent me. They came after the funeral, so I never got my chance to say goodbye.

The day I got the news, I wandered, in shock into my Hebrew class. There was a pop quiz, and at the bottom of the quiz I wrote the Hebrew word for "Why?" The professor, either answering the question of why we have pop quizzes, or coming back with a good Talmudic response to existentialism changed the last letter to become "To Learn".

So, I think about Rocky, and I think about Stephanie and Jodie and I all I can do is hope that I can learn a little and find my chance to help someone around me.

Our trip to New Hampshire

Wednesday, Kim, Fiona and I drove up to New Hampshire to help with the Edwards campaign on the day of the Democratic Presidential Debate as well as to give Fiona a chance to spend some time with her cousins. It provided a wonderful microcosm of the political landscape.

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piles, originally uploaded by Aldon.

In response to Colin McEnroe's column, "As Free Speech Fades, My Piles Grow", I thought I should post a picture of my current workspace.

The size of the piles can be explained in terms of us having moved in about a month ago.

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“letting the catchy and snarky become the enemy of the good”

As I sat napping on my porch overlooking Fountain Street as it pours into New Haven, my wife came by to adjust the blanket over my knees. She stopped to “gently shake my shoulder and wake me up and tell me I was right”.

No, I haven’t written any brilliant article about the prospects of Britney Spears doing an “insightful portrayal of Nora Helmer in Ibsen's "A Doll's House."” If I were writing that line, I might have suggested Britney, Lindsey and Paris in a modern adaptation of Checkov’s “Three Sisters”. But I digress.

What I am referring to this morning is Colin McEnroe’s brilliant column this week in the Hartford Courant, As Free Speech Fades, My Piles Grow.

Colin’s describes the Doninger case as “a douche bag in a coal mine or a canary in a douche bag” and relates it to the Senate passing an amendment to condemn MoveOn for “letting the catchy and snarky become the enemy of the good” in their advertisement illustrating the flaws of Gen. Petreaus.

Kim told me, “Look honey, your not completely off your rocker, even Colin is saying the same sort of things you wrote in your blog.” Here, I’m referring to my blog post, Responses to incivility, where I compared Avery’s case not only to the Senate’s latest amendment, but also to the tasering of the student in Florida.

Feeling fully actualized now that a noted personality has said something similar to what I’ve been blogging, and having been given an opportunity to indulge in a little self aggrandizement, let me MoveOn to the phrase that caught me attention. (I’ve already repeated it twice) “letting the catchy and snarky become the enemy of the good”.

It reflects part of the reason I’m spending more time napping on my porch overlooking Fountain Street and less time engaged in some of the hand-to-hand verbal combat in the political blogs. There are some great masters of catchiness and snarkiness in the political blogosphere. Yet I also worry that many of the let their catchiness and snarkiness get in the way moving their causes forward.

So, I will keep doing things like putting pictures of my ‘Team Avery’ shirt up on Wordless Wednesday to get all the stay at home moms and homeschoolers to stop for a moment and wonder what is going on with our schools. I know the homeschoolers particularly appreciate that.

One online friend has taken this even further. He named Avery Hero for a Day, and then went on to set up Team Avery on CafePress as another part of the fundraising to help cover the cost of the appeal. Please, buy a shirt, donate, and join us at Poets and Writers For Avery in Litchfield on October 14th.

Yes, the whole case is a bit of “a douche bag in a coal mine or a canary in a douche bag”, but to borrow from Pastor Niemoller, “First they came for the gamers, and I did not speak out because I was not a gamer. Then they came for the Bloggers and I did not speak out
because I was not a Blogger…”

I hope I didn’t just let the catchy and snarky become the enemy of the good. I hope you join the good fight to resuscitate the canary in the douche bag.

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