December

“April is the cruelest month”,
but December ain’t that easy either.
At AA meetings,
the litanies begin,
“I don’t know how I’m going to make it through the holidays”,

and the person who has lost a loved one
nods in assent.

The lonely
look at the crowds
of merrymakers,
feeling left out

and the yearly battles
begin again,
starting even before black Friday,
as far back
as Halloween.

Merry Christmas,
Happy Holidays.
Hanukkah, Kwanza
Solstice, Saturnalia.

The advertisers offer their balm.
If you buy this item,
you’ll have friends
and be happy,

but the monks and mystics
focus on Advent,
a period of quiet expectation
before the incarnation
a time drowned out
by the marketing madness.

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Emancipating American Christianity

A friend online posted a link to John Pavlovitz’s My Emancipation From American Christianity. Here is what I shared as a comment:

This past year, I felt a strong calling to become an Episcopalian priest. This coming year will be a year of trying to discern exactly what that calling is. I shudder when I see titles like this, but I think this article really captures what many American Christians are struggling with.

One book I recently read suggested that Christianity, a religion based on death and resurrection, needs to see the death of the American Christianity Pavlovitz and many of us have outgrown, and a resurrection of a Christianity " that looks more like God and feels more like love."

One paragraph that particularly jumped out at me was

If religion it is to be worth holding on to, it should be the place where the marginalized feel the most visible, where the hurting receive the most tender care, where the outsiders find the safest refuge.

The moment when God’s call to me felt most palpable was during a guided meditation at a poetry workshop at Yale Divinity School. I sat there, surrounded by priests and seminarians, feeling like an outsider, but feeling I was in a safe refuge being prepared to be sent out to provide tender care to the hurting and marginalized.

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Advent II 2015

A voice cries out in the wilderness,
the wilderness of San Bernardino
the wilderness of Colorado Springs
the wilderness of endless Facebook posts
that show no compassion
the wilderness of shut-ins
dying along
the wilderness of homeless people
trying to stay warm.

Make straight the way of the Lord
in the hearts of the people
in the words of the leaders
in the actions of us all
as we show compassion
to those different from us
smile at those
who too rarely see smiles
because we too rarely
smile ourselves.

And all flesh shall see the salvation of God
whatever they call God
whatever they think of God
if they even think of God at all
or acknowledge God’s existence.

The salvation found
in a smile
a hug
a gentle word
a shared meal
is but part
of our role
in making the rough ways smooth.

My #Advent #QuestionADay

I’ve been participating in the Question a Day Advent Calendar. It has been quite a week, this first week of Advent, and I’ve combined a couple questions into one post. I was starting to write a different blog post about my week, which slowly changed into my advent question. As I looked at the calendar, I found it fits nicely with today’s question.

“What’s the best advice you heard this week?”

Let me take parts of my personal spiritual journal, and put them into a public blog post. First, I’ll talk about what I think some of the best advice I gave this week.

People have been posting online, “Don’t Pray”. They are posting, “God is not fixing this”. They have wagged their tongues and asking, “Where is your God?”

I’ve responded saying, “Don't say ‘No More Prayers’, say ‘Backup your prayers with action’. No more empty rhetoric.”

But the question is about advice I’ve heard this week, so I’ll hop to a different part of my journal:

Friday, we had Grand Rounds at work on cultural competency when providing LGBT care. One of my tweets summarized an important point saying, “Key aspect of the cultural competency training I'm at: learning how to be respectful of people who don't match our assumptions.” In my own journey, it is about standing with the other. That is perhaps the best advice I’ve heard this week, explore how to be respectful of people who don’t match your expectations.

Part of the discussion was about creating a safe place for people to talk about the sexual orientation and gender identity. It seems that the safest place to talk about such core issues we all face is the medical office, and, unfortunately, not the church. There was a discussion about health centers ‘coming out’ on coming out day. How do we, as a church, come out as a community that loves all people?

This leads to my advent question:

At work, we will be doing a series of webinars about clinical workforce development. We are trying to find ways to avoid them being just another webinar. One of our phrases is, “This is not your mother’s webinar”. I sent off an email to our clinical director suggesting we use, “We interrupt the webinar to disrupt health care”. As I write this, I wonder about how we would complete the phrase,
“We interrupt this sermon, (or this church service, or even, this vestry meeting), to disrupt … “

Later this morning, I will head off to a poetry group I am part of. What does poetry interrupt? What does it disrupt? How does this fit in my journey?

So, my question to you: Complete this phrase: “We interrupt this _____ to disrupt _____”

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#Advent #Questionaday A Rainbow Swirl

Yesterday’s question was “What color and shape best describes your day?” It ended up being a long day, so I didn’t get a chance to write down my reply. It was a long day when a lot of things happened, so there isn’t a simple color or shape that best describes the day. Instead, it is probably best to describe the day as a rainbow swirl.

Today’s question is “What’s your favorite place for thinking?” My immediate reaction was the blue stuffed chair in the corner of the living room, where I am sitting as I write this. It is my writing place, and hence my thinking place. However, there are plenty of runner ups. My bed as I’m falling asleep, or when I wake up in the middle of the night. The shower, as I’m getting ready for work, and thinking about what I need to do during the day. My car, during the commute. A church sanctuary. Some place in nature, in the woods, or by a body of water.

So, what is your favorite place for thinking?

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