Remembering 9/11

I’ve been up late, recently, between meetings and work, so I haven’t had a chance to sit down and write up my memories of September 11, 2001. For me, Kim was at the obstetrician’s office. She was having one of those final checkups a few weeks before her due date. Fiona was kicking around inside of Kim’s tummy, and Mairead and Miranda were off at school.

Kim called from the ob/gyn office. As she was setting up her next appointment, she glanced at the television in the waiting room, and saw that a plane had crashed into the World Trade Centers. She called me, and I turned on the TV and watched as a second place hit the towers, as I talked with Kim on the phone. What was going on? What did it mean?

I logged into a text based virtual world that I had been active with. I talked with friends there. Some were from Washington, DC and were talking about events there. We gathered, as family, my wife and I on the phone, my friends online, and all tried to make sense out of it.

Now, seven years later, many of us are telling our stories online. Cromely’s World has a blog post up, pointing to a post on Flyer Talk about one passenger’s experience. He also has a post about his experience flying a few years later as well as his mother’s experience in New York City on 9/11.

Yet the story that jumped out most at me to day was, Soap Sushi’s story. She was in the hospital after having a c-section a few days before when her first daughter was born. Her first daughter is about a month older than Fiona. She talked about seeing the images of the planes hitting the World Trade Centers being repeatedly shown on television. She talked about going into bankruptcy and the darkness that surrounded her.

It is a powerful blog post that I urge everyone to read.

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About Authority

(Originally published at Greater Democracy.)

One of the mailing lists I am on is hosted by a 501(c)3 in the United States. Among other things, it means that the hosting organization cannot actively support specific candidates in U.S. elections. This resulted in an email from their general counsel’s office warning about political discourse on the mailing lists. It generated a lot of interesting discussions, and I sent an email to the list about the larger issues that this has generated. I’ve modified the email to make it more generic, and present it here.

It seems like some of the posts recently get to what I find the most fascinating issue around politics, psychology, and group dynamics, which is how we understand authority.

To many people, the President of the United States is the ultimate human authority figure. The people of the United States are in the process of deciding who will wear that mantle next. As such, the campaign is about much more than just issues, personalities, or parties.

This brings us to the issue of how each one of us, individually, understands and confers authority on others, as well as how people in positions of authority attempt to maintain authority.

To what extent is authority granted from above, whether we talk about the divine right of kings, or simply the authority conferred on people as a result of playing by the rules of existing governing authorities and receiving their blessing, in the form of degrees, credentials, licenses etc? To what extent is authority granted from below, from people whose trust and respect we have earned?

I don’t want to promote black and white, or red and blue thinking on this. Indeed, it seems like authority comes from a mix of above and below, and the important question is, where do you stand on the spectrum.

From my writing, it should be fairly clear which end of the spectrum I tend towards, and if my writing doesn’t give it away, the fact that I often wore a T-shirt saying ‘Question Authority’ might be another useful clue.

So, let us take for a moment, a look at the question of authority as it relates to the ‘prohibition on political activity’ on the mailing list. The Associate General Counsel for the non-profit sent this message to List Managers. She focused on authority from above, she notes her credentials, as Associate General Counsel, which is an authority granted upon her by the organization that employs here. She sends the message to the managers of the lists, again working from the top down.

Then, the manager of the list sends the message to the list itself and there is some rebellion. The rebellion is from the bottom up.

And the sign says `long hair freaky people need not apply`

Now, let’s take this a little bit further into the realm of the political. People in power, as a general rule, do not give up power willingly or easily. They focus on the authority granted from above as a means of maintaining their power. They may even do things to discourage discourse which would threaten their power, such as promoting an overly broad interpretation of the rules concerning non-profits in the United States.

We have seen this in other areas, including the recent arrest of journalists in St. Paul, the efforts of the current U.S. Administration to centralize power in the executive branch by very broad interpretations of ‘executive power’ and by the pressing of new laws that further erode the rights of citizens.

If we look more closely, we see it in the rhetoric of the candidates, the denigration of ‘community organizers’, people who focus on empowering authority from the bottom, and the exalting of the role of ‘governor’, that is authority wielded from the top.

We have also seen it in the dismissing of people who lean towards a power structure where authority is granted from below when people who question the current power structure are labeled ‘unpatriotic’ or even ‘traitors’. We have seen it in the discourse, where critics are drowned out by people chanting ‘U S A … U S A’, which I would maintain, in the context is not about love of a country based upon democratic ideas where authority is granted from the bottom, but in a context of respecting the current authority structure. We may even see it in people equating rebelling against an overly top down authority structure with immaturity.

So, what do we do with all of this? One member of the list wrote about this saying,

Oppressive power stays in power when the citizens pass the point of no return on speaking out because they have become afraid. With no challenge to that power, the institutionalizing of oppression and the harshness and probability of the punishment increases until there is a point of no return to civic discourse.

It seems like what is most important is to encourage people to explore their own relationship with authority, and to speak out about it; to speak out against power that has become oppressive. It seems like we must create spaces where it is possible and safe for people to do such exploration and speaking.

I think the manager of this list is doing a good job in carefully navigating this for this list, but I would encourage each of you to look a little more closely about your own views about authority and power, and how it relates to this list, to your work, and to political processes worldwide.

Talking About Politics

November 5, 1996. I took my six-year-old daughter, Mairead, up the street to the old firehouse which was our polling location. We talked about the importance of voting and I cast my vote. Sure, it wasn’t particularly close that year, but it has always been important to me to get out and vote no matter how close the elections are.

Mairead was always very bright, and always ready for an argument, and I seem to recall that she felt it was unfair that she didn’t get to vote. After all, she was probably brighter and more informed than many of the adults voting. We probably talked a little bit about how laws were made and how when she was old enough, she could work on lowering the voting age.

Attorney General Blumenthal touched on this at the Obama Rally in Hamden, Connecticut last Saturday when he particularly thanked people that brought their children to the rally. We need to encourage civic involvement starting at an early age.

Twelve long hard years have come and gone. Mairead is off in college and I wanted to make sure she was registered and was going to vote. In response to an email I sent, she wrote, “I want to actually go to a voting place... Remember when you took me to the fire station for the '96 election? I've been waiting ever since.”

I suspect neither of Mairead nor I imagined what those twelve years would be like, or how historic her first vote would be. Yet perhaps that is an important lesson to all of us. Things that we talk about can carry greater significance than we think at the time, even if it takes twelve years to come to fruition.

I suspect the same applies to the comments we leave on blogs. At one blog I visit, a person posted a comment bewailing about the polarization of politics. That same person then went on to compare Obama to Hitler. Excuse me? I don’t think people that compare a U.S. Presidential candidate to Hitler has much ground to complain about other people polarizing politics.

In another discussion, I heard people complaining about how biased the media is and how bad it was that there weren’t going to be more debates. I remember many of the debates during the primaries where the moderator, typically a noted pundit or anchor from one of the major networks spoke more than the candidates. It reminded me of the old joke about a resort up in the Catskills. One person complained, “The food here is horrible” and the other replied, “Yes, and the portions are so small.”

I would love to see good debates that focus on the issues, and don’t resort to candidates and pundits yelling at one another about trivialities. I would love to see people on the web talk about politics without resorting to polarizing rhetoric, and I sure hope that a friend of Mairead will send me a picture this November of her wearing an “I Voted Today” sticker.

So yes, the portions of political dialog are small, the politics are too polarized, but to throw in another great quote, “There is only one thing worse than being talked about, and that’s not being talked about.” So, let’s talk politics. If we can be grown up, the way my daughter was twelve years ago, we can do it without polarizing rhetoric, but even if the best you can do is be divisive, let’s have a discussion.

Sarah Palin and a Variety of Religious Experiences

Sunday morning, September 7th, 2008. Last night, the remnant of Tropical Storm Hanna passed through our state, spawning a couple tornado warnings here and there and assorted power outages. On our way to church, we passed a section of road where traffic was redirected due to downed power lines, and I had heard about other power outages around the state.

Yet it was a beautiful Sunday morning. At church, the service followed a familiar course and we sang familiar hymns and then it was time for the sermon. Part way into the sermon, Rev. Lesley Hay, our assistant Rector talked a little bit about different ways people seek to worship God.

Suppose we go to live in a new place and are looking for a church to belong to. How do we choose? Is there any one church “closer to the truth” than another church? Is churchmanship – how the liturgy is done, the liberality of rigidity of the individual church and its leadership, legitimate criteria for making our choice? Or should we commit to attending our parish church and stretch ourselves a little or a lot, rather than shop around to find a good comfortable fit for our personal predilections? These can be difficult questions when we seek certainty or some kind of “authority” that will guide our lives “correctly.” Some people roam all over the place until they find what for them is a right match.

Recently, I reviewed the book, The Faith of Barack Obama. The book spoke about his spiritual journey and how he found himself worshiping at Trinity United Church of Christ. The sermon made me stop and think about Barack Obama’s spiritual journey and Sarah Palin’s spiritual journey. Gov. Palin was baptized a Roman Catholic as an infant and later baptized into the Assemblies of God church as a teenage and her religious beliefs strongly shape her politics.

I disagree with her politics. I disagree with the underlying theology that shapes her politics. I disagree with the way she demonstrated her beliefs at the Republican National Convention. Yet, I would not be so bold as to suggest that the churches I have attended throughout my spiritual journey nor the churches that Barack Obama has attended are any closer to the truth that the churches she has attended.

Back to Rev. Hay’s sermon.

Yet for Christians there is a common thread that will tie life together in one glorious bundle once they it and accept it. What is that thread?

Remember the start of today’s epistle. Paul is writing to the newly formed community of faith in Rome, and he says this, “The commandments, ‘You shall not commit adultery, you shall not murder, you shall not steal, you shall not covet – and any other commandment, are summed up in this word, “Love your neighbor as yourself.”’ If you love others – I’m paraphrasing now – you will never do them harm; to love your neighbor then, is to obey the whole law.

I remember at various youth groups, years ago, singing, “and they’ll know we are Christians by our love.” I worry about Sarah Palin’s brand of Christianity. Too many people I know, have rejected Christ because of strict legalism, because of feeling unaccepted because who they are doesn’t fit the model of who conservative Christians think they should be.

So, I pray that we as Christians get back to that common thread that Rev. Hay preached about this morning. I pray that our candidates will stop showing hatred in their attack-laden political speeches. I pray that all Americans might be able to see the love of Christ in the words of both Barack Obama and Sarah Palin.

I guess Rev. Hay summed it up nicely at the end of her sermon,

One reason we worship together each week is to remind ourselves that at the center of our life and the life of the world, is not conflict, or tensions unresolved or stuff avoided or internecine wars, or liberals versus fundamentalists, or despair, or cynicism, but Jesus Christ and the love of God. We are Christ’s mission to witness through our words and actions that God is at work reconciling this world into the light of peace.

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