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When I was a Mommy Blogger

I won't forget when Peter Pan
Came to my house, took my hand
I said I was a boy, I'm glad he didn't check
I learned to fly, I learned to fight
I lived a whole life in one night
We saved each other's lives out on the pirate's deck

Yesterday, I received an email inviting me to The Motherhood. Their welcome message says,

If you believe in the power of mothers to make things happen, you're going to love this neighborhood. Come on in and make yourself at home!

Well, I do believe in the power of mothers to make things happen. I spend a lot of time visiting Mommy Blogs around the Internet and I tell all my political friends to step beyond their political blogs and reach out to the Mommy Blogs.

That said, I would like to remind people of my gender. The picture of my white bearded face should make it clear that I am not a Mommy Blogger by most popular definitions. However, Dar Williams helped me put this into proper context. The quote at the top of this post is Dar singing about when she was a boy. The song ends with

And I tell the man I'm with
About the other life I lived
And I say now you're top gun
I have lost and you have won
And he says, "Oh no, no, can't you see

When I was a girl, my mom and I we always talked
And I picked flowers everywhere that I walked
And I could always cry, now even when I'm alone I seldom do
And I have lost some kindness
But I was a girl too
And you were just like me, and I was just like you"

So, to all the Mommy Bloggers out there, either by birth or by conviction, stop by The Motherhood and see if we can save each others lives out on the pirate deck and perhaps even help all of us find some of the kindness that has been lost.

Helping students find their voices, or not

Chris Powell’s editorial in the Manchester Journal Inquirer last Wednesday was entitled Forget Sheff: Take up the real city problem.

It starts off:

Some state legislators have noticed that the settlement of the Hartford school integration lawsuit is a sham. Tens of millions of dollars have been spent building and operating "magnet" schools and busing students around the Hartford area but the city's schools are less integrated than they were when the settlement was reached four years ago, and the performance of city students is no better either.

It raises interesting questions. How effectively is money being spent on education in our state? What are the real problems?

Stephen Wilmarth run the The Center for 21st Century Skills. The Center is “a semi-autonomous organizational unit of Education Connection to enhance and expand upon the efforts and collaborations of existing Education Connection staff and their work in the area of 21st Century Career and Technical Education.” Ultimately, I believe, some of the funding from legislation that came out of the Sheff v. O’Neill decision supports Steve’s efforts.

I sent him an email to ask for his opinion about the editorial. I expected Steve to talk about how our educational system needs major revamping, particularly in the areas of curriculum development to meet the needs of a 21st century workforce. Instead, he focused on economic disparity:

I think you're going to see some real issues and social unrest over the next several years, because the problem can not be contained in the long term by a policy of building schools and cutting ribbons for show. The problem is…a problem of economic disparity. And it is a problem that is creeping out of the cities and into what we might have called "middle class communities" like Seymour, Naugatuck, Middletown, and others. Either Westport and Greenwich accept Bridgeport's students in their schools, or work their political power to change the rules of the game and insure that every CT student have an opportunity to be educated in a manner that enables them to be productive members of society in this century. It's not a hopeless challenge, but it will take courage and commitment.

So, what are the issues that our schools are trying to address today? First, there is the case of “Voice in Conflict”, a play put together by a theatre class at Wilton High School. This was the play that was judged to be too inflammatory by the school’s superintendent to be put on in the $10 million auditorium, so instead the students were invited to perform the play in venues around the country.

Now, a new case has emerged. Lauren Doninger has filed a suit on behalf of her daughter Avery who had been class secretary for three years at Lewis S. Mills High School because she wrote a blog post calling the superintendent a “douchbag” for canceling a concert at the school.

What does any of this have to do with Chris Powell’s editorial about Sheff v. O’Neill? What we need is better education in our state, education that helps all people find their voices. By helping all students find their voices, we can engage in dialogs that truly bridge the racial and socio-economic gaps that plague us. Unfortunately, school administrations in Connecticut seem more concerned about making sure that students do not find a voice, especially if that voice criticizes the administration or presents opinions that not everyone agrees with.

Communion

Sunday morning, very bright, I read Your book by colored light
That came in through the pretty window picture.

One of the most important rules about having a successful blog, all the experts say, is to have a clear niche. Write about one thing, stay on message and keep your focus. If you’re going to write about technology, stay with technology. If you’re going to write about progressive politics, stay with that. The same goes for religion, personal blogging, etc. The rationale for this seems to be the fear that strikes many media educators about what is happening to the way people consume media.

More and more, people are searching the web for viewpoints that match their own. As a progressive, I can go out and find other people writing from a progressive viewpoint. As a Christian, I can find people writing from a Christian viewpoint. The more different viewpoints a write brings to their blog, the more they will narrow the audience, the theory goes.

Yet the increasing Balkanization of our media consumption is something the media educators fear. Take a look at EPIC. How do we deal with the dangers of an increasingly Balkanized society of media consumers?

For me, the first line of defense is rejecting the adage to keep my blog confined to a narrow niche. Instead, I will write about politics, about being a husband, a father, a brother and a son. I will write about media and technology and even religion.

I started blogging several years ago as many of my friends from a different online community moved from a synchronous text based programmable game-oriented chat room to blogging. I spent a lot of time at a place called LambdaMOO. The space was created around the space of the originators house. I think a house is a great metaphor for that sort of space, as well as for the space that a blog creates, and I named the Orient Lodge Blog after the house I was living in when I started the blog.

In the dining room, there is a picture of Gov. Dean holding my daughter at one rally or another. It sits next to a crucifix and some crafts that my wife made to liven up and add a touch of hominess to the dining room.

At our table, we have had a wide variety of guests, political, religious, business leaders, and technologists. There has been great food and great laughter. There has been communion. I seek to share this communion online, knowing that if the experts are right, I will drive away everyone who doesn’t match my unique and eclectic views, yet believing that we are better than that. That we can sit down with people

So the Christians and the Pagans sat together at the table,
Finding faith and common ground the best that they were able,
And where does magic come from? I think magic's in the learning,

So, I hope that my gifted pagan anime-loving lesbian readers, by Buddhist technology activist readers, my atheist progressive political readers, my cancer surviving southern Christian mommy readers, my retired conservative economic professor readers, and a wide range of other readers can all sit at the table and share ideas.

(Note: Lyrics are Hymn by Peter, Paul and Mary, and The Christians and the Pagans, by Dar Williams. It is my belief that both are protected by copyrights and the use falls within the best practices in fair use, specifically, “quoting copyrighted works of popular culture to illustrate an argument or point.” For more information on Fair use, please check out The Center for Social Media’s webpage, Copyright and Fair Use.)

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Harold’s Risky Crayon

A week and a half ago, I was tagged by Rod with a Thinking Blogger Award. Part of the game is to go out and tag five other bloggers that make you think. Instead of rattling off five blogs when I got the award, I thought I would spend some time, try to find the right recipients, and then put up my post.

This evening, I stumbled across a blog post that made me sit back and think, so I’ll use of the first of my five nominations for Oh, The Joys. In Overthinking Harold's Purple Nightmare she thinks about Harold’s Purple Crayon in a manner radically different from my own thoughts. On top of that, when I stopped by she was breaking 50 comments on the post, most of them echoing her thoughts.

I wondered if it is a chromosome thing. She spoke about this in a previous blog post where her husband amuses her son by bouncing underwear off of a ceiling fan

K threw, the teeny tiny underwear, they caught on the ceiling fan blade, they spun around...

...and they flew down and SMACKED The Mayor right in the head.

K's manly victory dance ensued.

The Mayor laughed.

I shook my head and thought, "that is one odd chromosome."

On further investigation, however, I wonder if it is a Mason Dixon line sort of thing, or something about risk taking. You see, Kim loved the Harold stories as a child, and reads them to Fiona, who also loves them. Kim, Fiona and I are what I believe is called in the south, damnyahnkees.

Thinking Blogger Award

Today, I got tagged by Rod with the Thinking Blogger Award.



It is an interesting meme floating around, mostly in the MyBlogLog space. The idea is that if you are tagged with the award, you get to tag five other people with the award. These sorts of memes are the chain letters of the blogosphere.

As an illustration, from the look inside MyBlogLog, we find that they have around 50,000 users, as of May 2007. Assuming that everyone who gets tagged, tags five other people, and there is no overlap or breaking of the chain, after the sixth round, we run out of people on MyBlogLog.

I tried tracking back my Thinking Blogger Award Ancestory. I (1) was tagged by Rod (2) who was tagged by Skipper (3). Skipper was tagged by Loz (4), who was tagged by Paisley (5). Paisley was tagged by Walter (6) who was tagged by Danielle (7).

With that, we’ve gone past the 50,000 members of MyBlogLog, if everyone was in MyBlogLog, there were no breaks, etc. However, Danielle illustrates where this analysis fails. She has been tagged three times already.

Are there really 50,000 blogs that make people think? ilker yoldas started this off with the comment, Too many blogs, not enough thoughts!, and I wonder if the meme has reached the end of its usefulness. After all, if I’ve been awarded a thinking blogger award, perhaps the award has finally jumped the shark.

Perhaps some of the problem is what seems to me to be various blogging ghettos. The Thinking Blogger Award seems to be stuck in the MyBlogLog world. Political bloggers, and perhaps even non-profit bloggers are all to serious for this sort of stuff. Some of them are so ghettoized, they never read or link to anything outside of their parochial community.

So, I’m going to try and break this. I’m going to save my nominations for my next post and spend time thinking about blogs beyond the SAHM/WAHM/SEO/Pet/Knitting MyBlogLog world. I’m going to try to be a connector. Let’s see where we can go with this.

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