Archive - Nov 2010
November 8th
Music Monday - Tony Mena, a Veterans' Day Special
Submitted by Aldon Hynes on Mon, 11/08/2010 - 12:01I stare into the waves.
I ask them to calm down and behave.
Everything in life tastes sweeter,
when you slow it down.
I suspect many of my readers can relate to the opening verse of Tony Mena’s song, “I Felt the Earth Spin Today”, but when you learn a little bit more about Tony, these words have even greater meaning.
His bio reads:
Tony Mena began learning the piano at the age of 12 with encouragement from his parents. At the age of 14 he gave up the piano and focused on high school athletics.After 9/11 he joined the military and entered the Special Operations community with the Reconnaissance Marines. At the age of 24 he was stationed in Okinawa, Japan and began re-learning to play the piano after buying a small keyboard.
During his tour in Iraq, his musical skills were needed by his Battalion and he played the piano for four separate funeral services. During the downtime between missions in Iraq, he began learning how to play the acoustic guitar with the help and instruction of several members of his platoon.
Tony Mena received a Navy Achievement Medal with a V for Valor for multiple acts of bravery while under fire in Iraq. Upon completion of his military service, he attended the University of Missouri where he surrounded himself with music and poetry as a means of dealing with many of the events he experienced in war.
When I first saw Tony’s submission on Sonicbids I wanted to put up a review right away. Then I thought about holding it off until this week. Thursday is Veteran’s Day and if you want to thank a vet, a good way to start is by going out, seriously listening to some of Tony’s music and sharing it with friends. It is that good. It is that powerful.
“I Felt the Earth Spin Today” continues with
I felt the earth spin today
and it was beautiful.See the world,
through my bright eyes.
Not only are the lyrics beautiful, but the guitar playing is solid, the melodies haunting and tied together with great singing.
As a final tribute, please watch and listen to this Youtube video:
If you check out the notes below, you will find that Saturday was the fourth anniversary of the death of Kyle Powell and Jose Galvan who were Killed In Action in Iraq.
Please, remember Kyle and Jose this Veteran’s Day. Please think about Tony who has taken his experiences to create beautiful music and poetry, and please think about all the veterans that are back in the States today living with injuries visible, and invisible.
Hard Cider Sunday
Submitted by Aldon Hynes on Mon, 11/08/2010 - 09:35Saturday, Beardsley’s Cider Mill in Shelton, CT made more cider than it ever has in a single day. Sunday, I was there to get some of the cider. Here’s the story.
A couple of years ago, after we had been pumpkin picking at Jones Farm, we stopped at the Cider Mill to get some cider and donuts. We noticed a Hard Cider Making Kit that they were selling and my wife said that probably we had all the tools we needed to make our own hard cider. Her first husband had been a brewer and we could probably have one of his old “carboys”; a big glass jug.
So, we picked up a carboy and started making our own hard cider. It’s pretty easy and I encourage first time readers to go back and read through the Hard Cider brewing section of my blog to read my experiences and pick up a few tips.
Beardsley’s gets a lot of people coming into their store after pumpkin picking and when the weather is good as it was this year, October can be a great month for them. As the later apples ripen, often with higher sugar content, many claim the cider gets better for fermenting. I must admit that I really like the hard cider brewed from some of the first apples of the year, but that is a whole different story.
So, as the pumpkin traffic dies down and the later apples start coming in, the folks at Beardsley’s Cider Mill make a special batch of sweet cider. Besides the Northern Spy and Winesap which make up most of the apples in the cider, they throw in some other apples and even a little bit of quince to make the cider a little tarter. Then, hard cider enthusiasts from around the state descend on the cider mill on the first Sunday of November. They line up their carboys waiting to get them filled.
As they wait, they share some of their best batches from previous years along with stories and tips about how to brew it. Personally, I like to make a very simple hard cider. I like to use an ale yeast, do two fermentations, and either add a little maple syrup, or nothing at all. This year there were a lot of people sharing ciders they had made with honey added. There was also a really nice raspberry cider that I’m thinking about trying next year.
Last year, the cider mill made 350 gallons, and it got sold out before everyone get their carboys filled. This year, they doubled the batch and made 700 gallons. On Sunday, they sold 440 gallons, so they still have some available.
If you’re a hard cider brewer, or thinking about brewing hard cider, this would be a good week to get over there and get some of this cider before its gone. For that matter, it is also a great fresh cider, so you might consider picking up a gallon or two just to drink as is.
November 7th
Pathways to Transformation
Submitted by Aldon Hynes on Sun, 11/07/2010 - 11:24Recently, I was speaking with an organization about their social media presence. The head of the group spoke passionately about their commitment to ‘transformation’ and sure enough, ‘transformational’ was used twice on the front page of the website. It was in the title of one of the seven different menu selections and was in the title of the main block on the front page.
Looking a little bit deeper, they talked about transformation in terms of pursuing excellence, doing research, and training the next generation. Yet it didn’t jump out at me. Why? I suspect it was about more than just the font choices or color selections. It seems like everyone claims to be seeking transformation and pursuing excellence. I mean, common, who but a few wacky politicians are going to seek mediocrity or seek to turn back the clock of progress?
In writing, I’ve always been told to try and show something, not just tell people something. Show me how you are being transformational, don’t just tell me that it is what you are trying to do.
It was with this in mind that I attended the second session of Story.lab. Ken Janke continued his discussion about understanding the missions of our lives as stories we’ve been living and have yet to write. He spoke about transformation as the keyword for his story and how running storylab at the new coworking space, The Grove, in New Haven is part of this story. (See Jack Nork’s blog post about Friday’s meeting for more information, and especially, pay attention to Darius Goes West.)
Ken challenged us to think about the keyword for our own stories, and a few different keywords were presented; connectivity, engagement, and creativity.
This was from a group of people closely related to another group in New Haven. This second group has been talking about marketing and moving people’s engagement with a brand from the left side of a chart indicating low engagement to the right side where people are engaged in advocating for the brand.
I’ve often thought in similar ways about political engagement. We need to move people from not registered and not paying attention to paying attention, to registered, to getting out and voting, to getting involved in issues and campaigns, and perhaps even to running for office.
It seems as if all of these ideas come together into a path of transformation. The starting point is to get people connected and engaged. These two ideas are closely linked. By connecting with people that are engaged, new people become engaged, and as new people become engaged they establish more connections with other engaged people.
Yet being connected and engaged is just a starting point. When I spent time talking about the book Mousepads, Shoe Leather, and Hope: Lessons from the Howard Dean Campaign for the Future of Internet Politics, I often spoke about what I like to call the ‘invitation to innovate’. The Dean campaign knew that they needed something special, something different, something new to make a difference, and they invited those supporters who had become connected and engaged to innovate new ways of getting out the political message.
To return to the storylab workshop, this is where the creativity comes in. As we connect and engage people, we need to invite them to be creative. We may have to help them learn new tools that they can use to express their creativity. Then, as groups of connected, engaged and creative people emerge, we can get real transformation.
Will this happen at storylab? Amongst my online marketing friends? Or at the organization I mentioned? I sure hope so. Meanwhile, I will do what I can to get people more engaged in their missions, to connect with one another, to create new ways of doing things that can transform our lives around us.
November 6th
RIP: Florence Rush Nance Woodiel
Submitted by Aldon Hynes on Sat, 11/06/2010 - 16:16The Unitarian Meeting House in Hartford, CT was packed with family, friends, and neighbors gathered to honor the memory of Florence Rush Nance Woodiel and I was prepared for yet another memorial service this year, but not for the memorial I attended.
Noted violinist Paul Woodiel started off the ceremony talking about his mother and playing W.A. Mozart’s Sonata no 21 in E minor, K. 304 Tempo di Meuetto. It was a piece that the young Mozart composed after the death of his mother. When he completed the movement, the congregation applauded.
He told us that Florence Rush Nance Woodiel was born in China and named after her grandmother, Florence Rush Nance, who had been in China as a missionary around the start of the twentieth century. He noted that Florence Rush Nance had been one of the first women to receive a degree in science from Vanderbilt.
A little research reveals takes us to the Vanderbilt University Quarterly of January, 1904 It reports that Walter Nance was accepted by the Board of Missions of the Methodist Church, South for work in China in July, 1895. On September 27, 1897, he married Florence Rush Keiser. Florence Rush Nance taught mathematics and chemistry in the McTyeire School for Young Ladies.
The Open Library provides information about two books written by Florence Rush Nance, The love story of a maiden of Cathay published in 1911 and Soochow, the Garden City published in 1936.
Earlier this summer, I attended a memorial service for Evelyn Lull who had been a close friend of my family when I was growing up. Evelyn, and Flo both came from liberal traditions growing out of missionary families committed to the arts and fighting for the rights of all people, especially women. Like Flo, Evelyn was also the granddaughter of a strong, science oriented missionary woman. I wonder what sort of stories the grandchildren of the current generation will have to say about their ancestors at the turn of the twenty first century.
Later, Flo’s second cousin, Hodding Carter III spoke more about Flo’s unabashed liberalism and spoke about how we need people with Flo’s spirit now more than ever. For those who do not remember who Hodding Carter III is, back in the 1970s President Carter, who I do not believe is an immediate relative, appointed him Assistant Secretary of State for Public Affairs and State Department spokesman. He was often on the air during the Iranian Hostage Crisis.
In the congregation, Congressman John Larson, State Representative Andrew Fleischmann, and other dignitaries sat with others that had come to remember Flo. The great music continued. There was J.S. Bach’s Concerto for Two Violins in d minor: Largo, ma non tanto. At the end there were bagpipes.
Hodding Carter III went to Philips Exeter and later to Princeton. Others spoke about fellowships at Harvard, and one person quoted Emerson. This was elite eastern intellectual liberalism at its best.
I come from poorer stock. Generations of New England farmers, and nurses that had been raised as orphans in Canada and come down to New England for better jobs. Yet the underlying ideals of the people that gathered to honor Flo were the same ideals that the nurses and farmers in my family tree held and that we desperately need more of today.
There are some today that sneer at intellectualism, that would trample the arts, and that appear to have little use for the compassion that led ancestors to serve as missionaries over seas, to fight for women’s suffrage, or show concern for the impoverished of today. They are willing to trade everything that has made our country great in defense of selfish tax cuts for the most wealthy amongst us.
As for me, I am glad to stand with Flo, her ancestors, and everyone that gathered to honor so much that she has done. Rest In Peace, Florence Rush Nance Woodiel.
November 5th
“O.R.?”
Submitted by Aldon Hynes on Fri, 11/05/2010 - 10:07When I was a kid and my little sister or I were bothering our two older brothers too much, one would knowingly look at the other and say “O.R.?” The other would nod, and the two of them would disappear into their bedroom. My sister and I were always a bit miffed to be left out and wanted to know what “O.R.” really meant.
One day, I was fortunate. It must have been my little sister that was annoying my older brothers, because they said I could tag along. We entered my brothers’ bedroom and they sat on their beds. One of them told a story to the other, or at least that is what it seemed like to me. They might have been recounting a strange dream, or just about anything else, but it became clear to me that “O.R.” meant to go into one’s bedroom and tell stories.
Later I explained this to my little sister and after that she would often suggest, “Let’s have an O.R.”. Later, I found out that “O.R.” really simply meant, “Our Room”. My brothers would escape to their room to get away from my sister and me.
Yesterday was my wife and my tenth wedding anniversary. We had a simple celebration at home. It was also the second meeting of a group of Connecticut bloggers which I couldn’t make it to. I’m not sure how many people did make it, but I received an email afterward asking everyone what the goals of everyone in the group are.
I started off with my story about “O.R.”s because it provides a valuable context to understand what I look for in any social media gathering: community and narrative.
My sister and I didn’t want to feel left out. We wanted to be part of a community. We ended up creating our own little community with its rituals. I think of blogging in a similar way. Good blogging is about being part of a community, or perhaps many different communities of bloggers. What holds the community together is the story telling, is the narrative. I hope that the new blogging group can embrace community and narrative.
Today at noon, there will be a story.lab event at The Grove co-working space in New Haven. This seems like another good opportunity to explore finding community and narrative, whether we are bloggers, other social media enthusiasts, or however else we chose to define ourselves.
Where do you find community and narrative?